Dates after Marriage+mindless rambling.

I've been getting questions outside of online life asking if we'll ever be celebrating our marriage anniversary, or if we will still celebrate when we first started dating.
"If you do dating anniversary it feels like cheating because you count the times when you dated and not actually when you marry."
Uhm... that's-that's exactly the point. I'm not too fond of the wedding date anyway.
"If you do wedding anniversary you have to celebrate 1 year second year all over again."
...That's also exactly why I don't want to do that either.

I thought about the option of celebrating both but then i was like... "why? so much work..."

I know for a fact that in Korea they celebrate so many damn dates. On top of birthdays, every 14th of every month is like a mini valentines day, then you have the dating anniversary, then marriage anniversary, then the date you kissed, then the date you actually went out FOR a date, the date you got engaged, the date you exchange promise rings, the date you first met each other, the 100 day dating date, the 200, 300, 400 etc etc WTF WHYY WOULD YOU??



So I'm laying on the bed half awake half asleep when i start thinking... "WELL SHIT no wonder so many men in k-dramas break up with the girl. think about all that money you're spending on just dates! I'd get pretty damn tired of the relationship too!"


And then i got to thinking "...what do other people do?" Because I'm pretty sure Vietnam adopted a few of the Korean dates. =_= us viet people are clearly not original. except maybe nail art. we're pretty boss at nail art... digressing.


So far we've only been celebrating our yearly anniversaries, which just so happens to fall two days after valentines day, which means we've just been combining valentines and anniversary date into one. Before we did celebrate monthly anniversaries but after the 2nd year it was beginning to get ridiculous so we stopped lol.




What do I do? it would certainly give me an excuse to travel to Disneyland twice a year. hm...